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Female Ejaculation and Climax

Posted by Sensational Sex On June - 9 - 2010

An intense and satisfying sex life is important in any partnership. For centuries, emphasis has been placed highly on male stimulation and orgasm. In past decades, however, the subject of female stimulation and climax has become increasingly more of interest. Studies show that sexually satisfied females make better partners are are more attuned to returning the favour from a pleasure standpoint. This article will talk about ways females can be brought to orgasm and ejaculation, whether with the help of a partner or on their own.

One of the first and most important steps toward achieving the goal of female climax is setting the mood. This doesn’t have to involve cliche and overwrought stereotypes like rose petals scattered about and dim lights. Rather, the mood can be set simply by relieving some of the everyday stress modern females are consumed with. A simple shoulder massage, compliment, or offer to help her accomplish something on her to-do list are all great places to start. If the woman is working solo, she should try to relax herself with some breathing exercises or by watching a favourite television program. These steps work to ease the woman’s mind and set the mood for release later.

Next, foreplay is absolutely essential. A woman cannot be brought to climax without first having the proper amount of stimulation. Almost every woman prefers to be kissed first. Slow kissing and focus on the neck, ears and jawline can heighten arousal. Other erogenous zones, like the space between her thumb and forefinger and her clavicle, can be gently kissed. Give some attention to the breasts, depending on her preferences. For some women, the nipples are high arousal zones and touching and sucking them feel great for her. Still other women prefer to have little attention placed on her breasts.

When the woman is aroused, her vaginal area will become lubricated with natural fluids. Once she is wet, being stimulating her with the fingers, paying special attention to the clitoris and her G spot area. The clitoris is a small, hooded pressure point at the top of the vaginal opening that is packed with nerves, and the G spot is a small, spongy mass located inside the vagina that can be found by inserting fingers and making a “come here” motion. Circular massaging of the clitoris combined with light pressure on the G spot feels great for most women. Increase the speed of the motion on the G spot until the woman climaxes; female ejaculation will usually occur at this point. Much like male semen, the ejaculation is liquid and pliant. Ladies working to achieve climax on their own can use a vibrator of their own fingers during this stage.

Once the desired pressure and stroke is achieved, via hands, mouth or sex toy, keep a steady pace of stimulation until the woman starts to climax. Tell-tale signs of such are increased and laboured breathing, twitching throughout the body and an increased amount of lubrication. Continue until she falls still.

First Legal Male Prostitute in the US Calls it Quits

Posted by Sensational Sex On June - 9 - 2010

“Markus,” a 25-year-old ex-marine, and likely the first legal male prostitute in the United States, has just quit working at the Shady Lady Ranch, one of the handful of legal brothels in Nevada.

While prostitution has been a iconic part of the American West since the days of the first settlers, and has often been winked at or actively encouraged by the authorities, it has only been legal in a few places in Nevada, since 1971. Despite its status as “Sin City,” Las Vegas isn’t one of them. Customers of the Shady Lady had to drive over through a hundred miles of desert from Vegas to meet a woman of the night legally.

Or a man of the night. Markus, a former porn model, made waves by becoming the first man in a small field that was, until then, all-female. Not that there weren’t thousands of other male prostitutes and escorts; there just weren’t any legitimate ones. Would this work? Vegas is an international sex destination, but the supply-and-demand economics seemed stacked against a (straight) male getting paid for play. And he was straight: “For Ladies Only” as the brothel’s website put it. And ladies, as a general rule, don’t pay for sex. Least of all in Nevada. And US$300 (£200) per hour might be a lot to pay.

Apparently these concerns were real. Markus quit after two months and only ten customers; he’s gone back to making porn. He is being replaced by two more boys: “Jason” and “Y Not.”

Perhaps part of Markus’ problems came from a kind of double standard about paying for sex. Shady Lady’s girls are open to customers of both genders, and their photos (mostly) show their faces: they’re open-access. Shady Lady’s boys are strictly for the ladies, and get to keep their anonymity in the photos, which focus on their abs. Plus, Bobbi Davis, the owner of Shady Lady, suggests that her new boys are going to be charging about three times what her basic fee is.

As in many other industries, gender equality in the sex market is a slow process. The Shady Lady seems to treat its boys like an exotic speciality: higher fees, more dressing-room perks. It isn’t working. Perhaps, for boys to make it in this market, they need to work their way from the mail room (the male room?) like everyone else.

Adam Dexter

Posted by admin On March - 1 - 2010

Adam Dexter is a super star performer in adult gay sex movies. Adam Dexter knows his way around the bedroom with other guys. It does not have to be in the bedroom either it can be almost anywhere. Adam Dexter is a hot muscular man with all the right parts.

Adam Dexter has been in several gay movies that will truly excite you if this is your thing. Adam Dexter has been giving and receiving pleasure in movies like Naked Muscles, Hard Studies,Out in Africa 2, Big n Plenty, and several others. Adam Dexter and his muscular body light up the screen in these movies as well as his more then ample cock. His 8 inch up curved cock has stimulated many prostate glands in movies making his mate want more. Adam Dexter and his big cock has stretched out many asses to their satisfaction.

Adam Dexter also has had his cock casted and replicas made of a silicon product. This massive 12 inch cock made of a pvc product has the same natural features of the real thing. The up curved design is sure to reach your prostate to satisfy you with more then 7 and 1/2 inches able to be inserted in your tight ass. You can be writhing in pleasure with this massive member deep inside you. The Adam Dexter toy has a suction cup base for a hands free pleasure session. It does not only have to be used anally it can pleasure the female as well. It is an ample 2 inches thick and will add a new thrill with its up curved design. Men as well as women will like the suction cupped base of this massive toy designed after Adam Dexter. If you like it anally or in your vagina, if you have the Adam Dexter toy enjoy it to the fullest. Take the ride of your life on this pink headed black monster cock created by Adam Dexter.

Vibrating Eggs

Posted by admin On February - 26 - 2010

Vibrating Eggs are a larger egg shaped version of the vibrating bullet. The use of the Vibrating Eggs are to stimulate the clitoris. Many women like to rub or have their clitoris stimulated during sex and foreplay is a must. Adding toys like Vibrating Eggs can give women more pleasure during love making.

Vibrating Eggs can be made out of many materials like silicon, rubber, and metal. There are also silicone and other sleaves for the Vibrating Eggs. The clitoral stimulator can be operated by a corded panel or some have a remote control to operate them. They operate on a battery pack or single battery that offer plenty of power to that special spot. The control on the Vibrating Eggs can offer a wide range of stimulating pleasure.

The small size of the Vibrating Eggs make it a perfect starter toy for the bedroom. It will not dominate the scene and will add a sense of pleasure to your female companion. The small size of Vibrating Eggs can add to the pleasure level. The egg can find and fit in any fold around the clitoris with a little guiding. When you find that hot spot you can adjust the control from a light massage to a vigorous vibration that will send shock waves through your body.

Vibrating Eggs offer stimulation in public as well. A remote controlled egg can have you writhing in pleasure where ever you go. Can you imagine shopping with one of several Vibrating Eggs strapped to your clitoris. I hope you are not noisy or you will give it away. With strap on Vibrating Eggs you can enjoy sexual pleasure anywhere. With the remote control Vibrating Eggs your lover can stimulate you from across the room. This could add a new dance step on the dance floor.

Cheap Dildos Aging

Posted by Sensational Sex On February - 24 - 2010

You can find cheap dildos all around the world. It is believed that 12,000 years ago, in China, the dildo was used by the palace maids to pleasure the noble women when she was sexually deprived. These cheap dildos were made of wood, ivory, or jade. In Greece dildos were known as olisbos, they were made of stone, wood, or padded leather. At this time these dildos were made for use by single women only, and the lubricant of choice was olive oil. Some of the really cheap dildos were used by the ancient Arabians which were unripened bananas, and the Africans used camel dung which they covered with layers of resin. In 1869, George Taylor, an American doctor, invented the steam powered vibrator. At that time, in English speaking countries, the dildo was used only for medical purposes. It was believed that it helped relieve a woman’s hysteria and doctors used cheap dildos as a home remedy. By the 1890s physicians were using battery operated vibrating dildos with attachments on their patients for various sensations. By 1921 home vibration treatments were believed to keep housewives young and pretty and the dildo became more popular.

Though the traditionally cheap dildos were basic penis shaped solid objects, they have advanced greatly over the years. We now have a large variety ranging from dildos that simply vibrate to ones that wiggle, jiggle, and dance. There are even dildos that aren’t shaped like penises at all but animals and vegetables. These are meant mainly to make the experience unusual and different. More common dildos are the G-spot dildo which is curve especially for hitting a woman’s G-spot, and the realistic dildo which is shaped like the penis and can have a variety of lengths, widths, and bumps or ridges. These are all a matter of yours and/or your partners preferences. The double-ended dildo can be used with or without a partner, and in the case of solo does wonders for extreme pleasure. Then we have the strap on dildo, not only can it be used with your partner but if you’re home alone you can attach it to many other objects such as your bed, a chair, or in some cases a ball. For those who are into a little more kink you have the anal dildo and the inflatable dildo. The anal dildo is designed specifically for anal penetration and the inflatable dildo is inflated after insertion for perfect fitting. For those who really want it to feel like the real thing we now have ejaculating dildos. These have bulbs that hold either water or water based lubricant that is released at the press of a button. Dildos have come along way over the ages, from cheap dildos like the fruits and vegetables, to the more expensive ejaculating dildos. It’s just a matter of what is more pleasurable for you.

Learn To Talk Dirty

Posted by admin On February - 22 - 2010

For some men, sex without dirty talk is nothing more than a mediocre event. Without that communication (and the trust that comes with it,) their bodies and minds just aren’t connected. Sex is as much mental, as it is physical.

The unrestricted, uncensored, candid chatter that makes us blush is the only way to know if they want it faster or slower, harder or gentler. Without it, you’d never discover how they like their hair pulled, while you kiss them. The problem is, talking dirty to your partner is a sexual behavior that many people find to be very uncomfortable the initial time they try it, especially if they are trying it with someone new. In order to incorporate dirty talk into the bedroom, you must lose your inhibitions and expose yourself. This can always make you feel vulnerable and be a little scary. If a glass of wine is in order, to loosen things up, go ahead and pour one for yourself.

First, you should know that it’s important to be aware of your “audience.” Some are moved by moans and sighs, while others dig the outright dirty talk. It might be a good idea to ease into it and see what your partner prefers. Try starting off with some heavy breathing, or a simple “Mmmm.” It is this kind of feedback that cheers them on and helps showcase what you like. If they respond, then try to add some whispered comments about how good it feels. If you get positive feedback, maybe it’s time to attempt some dialogue. For starters, just say anything that comes to mind, but say it provocatively. Try saying, “What do you want me to do now?” very breathy and slow. Or a little muttering under your breath and emphasis on certain words will heat up phrases like “You have the most incredible body” and “I love it when you do that.” You want to try and avoid awkwardness by steering clear of clichéd expressions (like those from the porn industry,) but if your partner is undoubtedly excited, maybe you want to get a even dirtier.

Once you’ve taken the risk you may find that dirty talk isn’t for everyone. It takes a good amount of practice and trust between partners. You may even find that you prefer doing it more than you get off on hearing it. Either way, it’s just one more form of communication between couples that can help them to learn more about their partner’s desires that they didn’t already know.

Extra Credit

Posted by admin On February - 19 - 2010

He was always brooding in the back of the classroom as if he had a secret. I caught him looking at me several times. He was not the kind of person who looked away; he let his eyes stay on mine for a while trying to share his secret with me, then back down to whatever text we were reading. Occasionally, when he walked by my desk, I could smell him, earthy and warm. I breathed him in hoping that one day his scent would linger on my bed.

Winter had been long and hard, but our college rarely cancelled classes. One snowy day, I ventured to class, my only impetus to see him. When I arrived, the classroom was dark. Everyone must be running late I thought and turned on the lights to wait patiently. I kept my coat and scarf on because there was chill in the air. I heard the sound of his boots walking slowly, purposefully down the hall. My heart raced. I was going to be in the room alone with him. What would I say? What would I do? I did not have to worry about that for long.

He strode in, without hesitation, shut the door, and turned out the lights. “I was hoping you and I would be the only ones here today,” he declared. Taken aback by his boldness, I murmured something like, “Yeah, me too.” I barely got the words out of my mouth before he grabbed me by my scarf and pulled me tightly to him. We began to kiss with urgency. Almost immediately, I became wetter than I ever had before. As if he sensed my dampness and longing, he slowly took off my coat and lifted me onto a desk. He unbuttoned my blouse and gingerly took each of my breasts into his mouth as if he were starving for them. I made a deep cooing sound. He eased my tights and underwear off, gently bent down and nibbled my inner thighs. His tongue began to caress my clitoris, and he drank in my wetness until I begged for his cock.

He stood up, and I ripped off his belt. I could not get it off fast enough; I unzipped his pants to see his beautiful unyielding penis waiting for me. I eased it into my mouth, so I knew how he tasted. When he was ready to have me, he lifted me off the desk, turned me around, and penetrated me from behind. How he knew that was my favourite position I will never know. I clenched the desk and he entered me so deeply it took my breath away. The angle was perfect as he drove against my g-spot over and over again, deeper and deeper. I tried to contain myself but could not stop the animalistic moans that escaped from my mouth as he continued to please me. I came first, my juices making his climax even sweeter.

We assembled ourselves as best we could, with the glowing scent of sex still on us. Our professor casually entered the room. “Hmmm, you are the only two who made it. I believe you both deserve extra credit for coming today. Class is cancelled. Enjoy the rest of your day.” We did, in my bed.

Vernon Kay Regrets Sexting Five Women

Posted by admin On February - 16 - 2010

All Star Family Fortunes host Vernon Kay is trying to reconcile with his own family after he admitted sexting five women, including former Page 3 girl Rhian Sugden, 23. On Valentine’s Day, Kay tearfully apologized to his family on Radio 1, particularly wife Tess Daly as well as the couple’s two daughters, Phoebe and Amber. Kay called himself ’stupid’ and ‘an idiot.’ It is unknown what Tess Daly calls him.

Bolton native Kay, 35, adamantly denies having actually touched any of the five women inappropriately. He claims he began an innocent texting relationship with the five women and eventually things got rather naughty, but only in the virtual world. He also communicated with the five women through Skype, the web-camera phone service. Kay claims that he is ‘off the text habit.’

Although Daly has not given a public statement about her husband’s virtual affairs, she has cancelled all public appearances. The general public have already given their opinion on 12 February, when effigies of both Kay and philandering John Terry were put in a stockades in front of London Dungeon and pelted with eggs and rotten fruit.

Kay and Daly’s best known public appearance was singing duets on Just the Two of Us in 2007. Kay has done multiple hosting and DJ jobs since his television gig in 2004 for T4. It is unknown whether any of Daly’s jobs are under threat from this scandal.

Sensuous Food and Sex

Posted by admin On February - 2 - 2010

Eating a sensuous meal, savoring all of the different flavors and textures that the earth has to offer is closely aligned with the way we taste, touch and savor our sexual partners; orally, visually and with a sense of hedonistic enjoyment.

The next time you settle in for the evening with your sexual partner, why not combine these two activities to create a sensational, sensuous food experience.

Begin by preparing a special dessert of finger foods for, or with your partner. Think of this part as a ‘clothing optional’ step in the overall process. A shapely female body wrapped in nothing but a feminine apron will get his juices flowing and more than his appetite growing. On the flip side, nothing says sexy like a man who knows his way around the kitchen. Use foods that won’t weigh you down, like fresh strawberries, bananas and mangos dipped in melted chocolate or whipped cream.

Set the dinner table as usual, minus the silverware. Or, for some added romance, toss some oversized pillows around a low table and sit on the floor.

Turn down the lights and set the mood with some soft music. Light some candles, but only the un-scented variety. You don’t want the candles to compete with the aromas of the fruish fruit and melted choclate you’ll soon be devouring.

Now the fun begins. Take turns feeding the fruit to each other very slowly. Savor each bite, vocalizing your enjoyment. A banana dipped in chocolate is a fantastic way to let a male partner know exactly what to expect after dessert, as you slowly lick, twist and suck on the banana, first melting the chocolate with the warmth of your mouth, dragging your teeth gently, giving him something to feast on with his eyes.

A strawberry dipped in chocolate or whipped cream dabbed on your lips or nipples will entice your partner to have a taste. Touch, lick and sample all of the juicy, sensuous food that you’ve prepared together and while you are at it, touch, lick and sample each other.

Creating a fun, sensuous food experience can prolong sexual enjoyment, and go a long way in bringing a little spice to an otherwise bland evening.

Sex in Public Places

Posted by Sensational Sex On February - 1 - 2010

How many times have you thought about sex today. Sex is a natural impulse for humans, we all have it and certain things in life might set you off. When you drive by and look at that back alley, take an elevator or use a public restroom in an airplane, this is more commonly known as joining the mile high club. If you have that kind of dirty and kinky mind I know you have thought about it. So why not do it. What is the worst that could happen? Having your relationship fall apart because of your sexual tension with your partner, or being arrested for indecent activity. I don’t know about you, but staying with your man or woman is important enough to take the risk if he or she felt your sex life needed spicing up in that kind of way.

Now the question is; Do you want to do it because you want to experience new and exciting things? I have a depraved, dirty mind when it comes to sex, as well as a mind that thinks of sex as a way to share my love with another. I simply cant imagine any human being walking on this earth not having the same kind of mind, so I can only assume you are the same as me.

Having said that, I will tell you that I have had sex in public places with my husband who shares the same mind set as I have; a dirty, depraved mind. We have been to car parking lots, malls, casinos and other random places to experiment and experience the excitement of sex in public places. I won’t lie, we have been caught a couple times and just have been kicked out of the place and that was the worst. Most the time we haven’t even been caught at all, but just the thrill of it knowing you could be caught in the act is all part of the fun and excitement. Dont be afraid to expand your sex life and try different places you only live once, so go out of the way and do different stuff that can spice up your relationship. It’s fun.